Mentoring tips
Issue date: 4/10/02 Section: Life!
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• Be patient. Building trust takes time.
• Power is praise. A word of praise in a critical world works miracles in the life of a child.
• Set boundaries. Mentors have an important role, but this does not include replacing family or social service professionals.
• Try to understand a child's viewpoint. Even if you don't share his or her point of view, trying to appreciate it shows you care.
• Celebrate differences. Working with a young person from a different background can broaden the volunteer's life and deepen their understanding of other people and cultures. Sometimes it is the differences that make the difference.
• Be honest. Kids know adults aren't perfect. If you make mistakes admit it. Say you're sorry. It is a skill a child may only learn from you.
• Be there. Just the sound of a concerned voice can make a big difference in the life of a child.
• Be positive. Mentors are in the business of helping people make the most of their lives. Ask yourself, "What encouragement can I give if my young friend disappoints himself or herself? " Allow the child to make a few "growing" mistakes when they learn new things.
• Believe. Many children struggle with self-esteem. Faith in them can be the greatest gift to give.
Mentoring tips courtesy of www.bbbstristate.org